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Thursday, September 25, 2008

Ketupat Weaving Instruction (Cara Menganyam Ketupat) - Video



The first of the Kampung crafts to be demonstrated here is ketupat weaving. The ketupat is still being woven and sold by the Satay vendors of Singapore, Malaysia and Indonesia, but ketupat weaving in these regions is fast becoming a dying craft among the Malays as alternative and more expedient methods of making the rice cake have become available to the present generation. Ketupat casings are however still woven in homes for the Aidilfitri celebrations. During such times street vendors can be found at the Malay Village at Geylang Serai Singapore offering ketupat casings and cooked ketupat as well throughout the night till the wee hours of morning.


Materials for weaving ketupat casings. The Ketupat is a savoury rice cake wrapped in woven coconut leaves. The stick which forms the spine of the leaves is removed with a paring knife so that the leaves are split in two ribbon-like pieces. The young leaves of the coconut plant are used. These young leaves are light yellow in colour with green edgings down the long outer sides of the leaves. The length of the coconut leaves is just right for ketupat weaving. The wider the leaves the bigger the ketupat casing will be. The instructions given below is for the traditional ketupat - somewhat square in shape. Another type of ketupat casing is woven in the shape of an onion - called ketupat bawang.

Pandan leaves may also be used. The pandan leaves used are of the long variety and not the type commonly used for food flavouring. However, because of the scent or flavour of the Pandan leaves, such leaves are not usually used when the ketupat is served as a complement to certain dishes as the pandan flavour might affect the taste of the accompanying dishes. Ketupat are therefore traditionally served plain without any flavour. However, some ketupat are boiled in coconut milk seasoned with some salt.

For decorative purposes, ketupat casings may be woven in multicolored craft ribbons.

How to cook & serve ketupat.The ketupat casings are filled with uncooked rice at the top opening of the casing. It is filled two thirds or three quarters full. The more water absorbent Chinese rice is preferable to the Thai variety as the Chinese rice makes a more compact ketupat and the texture of the ketupat is also smoother. A whole bunch of filled ketupat is then put into a big pot of water and boiled for about 3 hours. The ketupat are then cooled. Serve ketupat cut across diagonally twice with the casing still intact. Remove the casing after cutting. Ketupat are traditionally served with Sayur Lodeh, Serunding, Sambal Tumis, Soto or Satay. Because of the long hours of boiling, the ketupat will keep well and may last a few days even without refrigeration.

Some Weaving Tips

Briefly stated the ketupat weave comprises three vertical and three horizontal interlocking loops. The two ends of the split coconut leaves end up together at the diagonal opposite ends of the ketupat casing: the 2 narrow ends finish together diagonally opposite the two broad ends. The opening of the ketupat (into which rice is filled) is located at the top end where the broad ends of the leaves are located.

The leaves are initially handled and placed in the manner illustrated in figure (1) below. When making the X, the B leaf should be longer than the A leaf so that there is sufficient space to line up the vertical loops.from the centre of cross to the B end of the leaf.

The 3 vertical loops (figures 2,3,4) are to be kept close together as otherwise it may be difficult to handle the weave when you get to stage (8) where the weave has to be turned around so that the bottom is turned up to face you. A loose weave may just fall apart then. Furthermore, you may also run out of the lengths of the leaves if the weave is woven too loose.

Dexterity comes with practice. A skilled person can complete one ketupat casing in under 1 minute.

NB The illustrations below are sketched to show the weave in loose formation as otherwise the weave will not be shown clearly enough and the back portion of the ketupat casing will not be visible. When weaving the ketupat all the vertical and horizontal loops should be woven as close to one another as it is possible to allow you to manouvre the next step. Try to keep the woven casing a square and not a rectangle as shown in the illustrations. You can do this by tightening or shortening the horizontal loops. In the sketches, the elongated horizontal loops are also exaggerated to aid visibility.

Weaving Instructions









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Eid Ul-Fitr Mubarak



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Happy Eid Ul-Fitr. Maaf Zahir& Batin. Dari Warga BeMie'S WoRLd



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Monday, September 22, 2008

Is It What We Called Masturbating?





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Thursday, September 18, 2008

Altimet - Chantek (Official Karaoke) - Akustik



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Friday, September 12, 2008

Midvalley MegaMall Dangerous Exprience



LET THIS TRUE STORY SERVE AS A WARNING

To the men : warn your loved ones!
To the women : remember this!

About a month ago there was a woman standing by the Mega Mall entrance passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might warn other women.


The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her car and discovered that she had a flat. She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat. A nice man dressed in business suit and carrying a briefcase walked up to her and said,

'I notice you're changing a flat tire. Would you like me to take care of it for you?'

The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.

The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her car, the man told her that he left his car around on the other side of the mall, and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car. She was a little surprised and asked him why his car was on the other side. He explained that he had met an old friend in the mall whom he hadn't seen for some time and they had a bite to eat and visited for a while; he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and now he was running late and his car was clear around on the other side of the mall.

The woman hated to tell him 'no' because he had just rescued her from having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy. Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk before shutting it and before he asked her for the ride to his car.

She told him that she'd be happy to drive him to his car, but she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy. She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in her car and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be. She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had happened; the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.

They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the police station. The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could return it to the man). What they found was rope, duct tape and knives.

When the police checked her 'flat' tire, there was nothing wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious what the man's motive was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out in advance.

The woman was blessed to have escaped harm. How much worse it would have been had she waited in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped into a car seat. Or if she'd gone against her judgment and given him a lift. I'd like you toforward this to all the women you know.

It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle.I was going to send this to the ladies only; but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it on to them as well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it....better safe than sorry.


PLEASE BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY!

JUST A WARNING TO ALWAYS BE ALERT AND USE YOUR HEAD!!!

SOMETIMES, THAT FEELING IN YOUR GUT IS THE VOICE OF GOD. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!



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Thursday, September 11, 2008

Family Potrait - Pink opsss Its Black



Difficult To Recognise.... Which One Is The Photographer's Wife

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Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Difference Between Women And Men





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Research about men n women



Interesting?..almost perfect ..

1. Tests have shown that women rate 3% higher in general intelligence than men although their brain size is smaller. Most women act dumb to make their mates look good.


2. Women are walking radar detectors, that is why men have difficulty lying to women. Their brains have the ability to integrate and decipher verbal, visual and other signals of body language.

3. Women want lots of sex with the man she loves. Men just want lots of sex..

4. When men flirt, they will lower their pitch of voice. Women will raise theirs.

5. Women talk and think aloud while men do them silently. As a result, men think women talk too much and are nags.

6. Women talk about their problems as a way of relieving stress. She wants to be heard, not fixed being offered advice and solutions.

7. Speech and words are not a specific brain skill for men. They find it hard to express themselves. That's why they often choose greeting cards with plenty of words inside. That way, there's less space for them to write.

8. Women leave men, not because they are unhappy with what he can provide, but because they are emotionally unfulfilled.

9. Women uses an average of 20,000 communication words, sounds, and gestures a day. Men only use about 7,000.

10. So if a woman is talking to you a lot, she likes you. But if she's not talking, you're in trouble.

11. Men are more thick-skined than women. Literally. Which explains why women have more wrinkles than men. Boys lose their sensitivity to touch by the time they reach puberty. So where does all that sensitivity go? It all goes to just one area.

12. If a woman is unhappy in her relationship, she can't concentrate on her work. If a man is unhappy at work, he can't focus on his relationship.

13. Men can only do one thing at a time. When they stop their car to read a street directory, they have to turn down the radio. Women's brains are configured for multi- tasking performance. They can talk on the phone, watch the TV and cook at the same time.

14. Most men get a brain hemorrhage after 20 minutes of clothes shopping.

15. When it comes to sex, women need a reason; men need a place.

16. 15% to 20% of men have feminised brains. About 10% of women have masculinised brains. So there are more gays than lesbians in the world.

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Are You Jealous?





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Anuar Zain - Lelaki Ini - Kena Cium





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Monday, September 8, 2008

MY WorLd MY BeMie



..Finally I've found a suitable Avatar to represent my blog, hope u guys happy with it..

MY WorLd MY BeMie

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Sunday, September 7, 2008

Top 10 grooming gaffes men make



You can have a closet full of designer suits, maintain a stable of exotic sports cars and date a supermodel, but if you're guilty of any of these grooming gaffes… you're just a poseur Top 10 grooming gaffes men make -By Aditya Mehta

1. Nose Hair- If your beak looks like a haunted forest, a little trimming is definitely in order. To eliminate pesky hairs, try a nose hair trimmer.

2. The uni-brow eyebrows are referred to in the plural because people are supposed to have a set. So, if you are the unlucky owner of a continuous "uni-brow" … it's time to do some division. To remove unwanted hairs, use tweezers to grip hairs at their base and pull in the direction of hair growth. A longer-term solution is a quality waxing kit.

3. B.O.- When you just can’t blame the dog any longer, try a scented body wash or nice cologne. Also, don’t underestimate the power of a good deodorant.

4. Bad Breath- If your breath has more kick than Bruce Lee, spend a little more time brushing (specifically your tongue). For additional help, give your mouthwash a solid 30-second gargle.

5. Missed Shaving Spots- In some cultures, a single dime-sized patch of hair on a man's chin or throat is considered "charming. Make sure this doesn't happen to you by always conducting a post-shave review of your tough-to-shave areas (i.e., right under your nose). Then, eliminate any stragglers.

6. Gnarled Mitts- A man's hands don't need to look pretty, but they should certainly be presentable. After all, your mitts are the first thing you offer a prospective boss or wife. To keep your hands looking good, get a manicure every now and then and use a hand moisturizer daily.

7. The Comb-Over- Need we say more?

8. Mismatched Cologne- A cologne may smell great out of the bottle, but less than pleasant once you put it on your body. That's because everyone's body chemistry is unique and certain fragrances just don't fare well on certain people. Cologne isn't supposed to make you stink… so try it on and give yourself a whiff before you buy.

9. Yellow Teeth- The term is “pearly whites”-– not “rusty yellows.” Keep your chompers sparkling with the aid of a whitening toothpaste. Professional whitening systems can also do the trick.

10. Neck Hair- You know that hair that accumulates on your neck in-between haircuts? Well, if there’s enough to braid, you might want to address it. Most barbers offer this service for a reasonable fee.

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Friday, September 5, 2008

REnung2kan

Dlm sribu mesti ada satu yg mjd perhatian, dlm perhatian yg satu itu ramai yg mbuat pbandingan,
dlm pbandingan itu pula org mcari ksilapan & jarang mnilai kbaikan... kerana apa?? Kerana yg satu itu tlalu istimewa.



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Nobody Perfect



Nie cerita sekadar renungan... .

"Mengapa sampai sekarang kamu belum menikah?"

ujar seorang kepada temannya yang sampai sekarang masih membujang.


"Sejujurnya sampai sekarang ini saya masih terus mencari wanita yang sempurna. Itulah sebabnya saya masih membujang. Dulu waktu saya di Utara, saya berjumpa dengan wanita yang cantik yang amat bijaksana. Saya fikir inilah wanita ideal untuk saya dan sesuai menjadi isteri saya. Namun belakangan selepas itu pada masa berpacaran baru aku tahu dia sebenarnya amat sombong. Hubungan kami putus sampai disitu.

Di Ipoh saya ketemu seorang perempuan yang cantik jelita,ramah dan dermawan. Pada perjumpaan pertama aku begitu takjub dan seronok.


Hatiku berdesir kencang, inilah wanita idealku. Namun selepas itu baru saya tahu, ia banyak tingkahlaku yg tak baik dan tidak bertanggung jawab.

Dan ketika aku di JB, aku bertemu wanita yang manis, baik, periang dan pintar. Dia sangat menyenangkan bila diajak berbicara, selalu nyambung perbualan kami dan penuh humor. Tapi terakhir aku ketahui kalau dia dari keluarga yang berantakan yakni berpecahbelah dan selalu menuntut sesuatu yang kita tidak mampu memenuhinya. Akhirnya kami berpisah.

Saya terus mencari, namun selalu mendapatkan kekurangan dan pada wanita yang saya temui. Sampai pada suatu hari, saya bersua dengan wanita ideal yang saya dambakan selama ini. Ia begitu cantik pintar, baikhati, dermawan dan penuh humor. Dia juga sangat perhatian dan sayang kepada orang lain. Saya fikir inilah pendamping hidup saya yang dikirim oleh Tuhan untuk saya".

"Lantas?!", sergah temannya yang dari tadi tekun mendengarkan


"Apa yang terjadi? Mengapa kamu tidak terus meminangnya? ".

Yang ditanya diam sejenak dan akhirnya dengan suara perlahan si bujang itu menjawab,


"Baru sekarang aku mengetahui bahawa ia juga sedang mencari lelaki yang sempurna".


Kesimpulan : Sudah diketahui maksud daripada cerita itu ?


Nobody's perfect. Jadi jangan mensia-siakan apa yang sudah ada di hadapan kita,belum tentu nanti kita mendapatkan yang lebih baik dari yang sekarang kita dapat, Tak kiralah kita ni lelaki ke pempuan ke... Kalau kita mau mencari yang sempurna, check dulu diri kita sendiri,apakah sudah sempurna di mata orang lain??

Rase-rasenyer sama juga dgn yang dah berkahwin... Redhalah dgn apa yang ada..belum tentu yang baru tu dapat memenuhi citarasa kita..yang lama dah tentu kita kenal buruk baik nya..just improve ourselves..dan sama-sama membetulkan kesilapan dan kekurangan diri masing-masing..learn thru our mistakes... wallahuallam. ..
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PETUA UNTUK MENDAPAT PASANGAN



Renungan bersama - Dato' Dr. Hj. Mohd Fadzilah Kamsah -

1. Semua orang ada jodoh atau pasangan yang menanti dan biasanya ia berada tidak jauh dari anda. Jarang orang bertemu dengan jodoh yang berada jauh darinya.

2. Jodoh itu ketentuan Allah dan kita wajib berusaha. Doa, usaha yang betul dan bersungguh-sungguh disertai dengan tawakkal, insyallah akan menemukan anda dengan pasangan anda.



3. Ramai orang masih belum bertemu jodoh kerana mudah patah semangat. Teruskan usaha sehingga anda bertemu jodoh.

4. Seimbangkan hidup anda dengan sempurna agar diri anda jadi seperti “magnet” yang menarik bakal pasangan anda kepada anda.

5. Daya tarikan yang sebenar berpusat di hati yang murni. Berusahalah untuk mencuci hati anda daripada semua perasaan yang negatif terhadap semua orang di dunia ini.

6. Agar mudah orang sayang, cuci hati dengan jaga ibadah, solat taubat, beristighfar, baca Al-Quran, maafkan orang lain, meminta maaf, bersedekah dan berfikiran positif.

7. Sayangi semua orang di sekitar anda dan anda akan menarik sayang terhadap anda. Jika anda membenci orang, ditakuti bakal pasangan anda akan membenci anda.

8. Orang yang sedang mencari pasangan harus sentiasa bersedia untuk bertemu dengan pasangannya pada bila-bila masa. Justeru, kita perlu sentiasa dalam keadaan yang paling menarik setiap masa. Tanggapan pertama adalah yang terpenting.

9. Untuk lelaki, tarikan pertama ialah pakaiannya. Untuk perempuan, wajah dan bentuk badan menjadi tarikan pertama. Sediakan diri untuk menawan bakal pasangan anda.

10. Buka hati dan minda anda untuk menerima cinta. Cinta boleh berputik pada bila-bila masa. Cinta mudah datang kepada mereka yang sentiasa bersedia untuk menerima cinta.

11. Cinta datang melalui mata lalu turun ke hati. Justeru, perhebatkan hubungan mata secara memandang bakal pasangan dengan penuh kasih sayang.

12. Kita boleh berkomunikasi melalui fikiran. Hantarlah kasih sayang dan hasrat murni anda terhadap pasangan dengan gelombang fikiran ini secara berterusan hingga berjaya.

13. Ramai yang terlepas peluang dan patah hati sebab lewat menyatakan hasrat kepada bakal pasangan. Perkara yang baik disegerakan (iaitu menyatakan perasaan anda kepada bakal pasangan).

14. Tidak salah untuk orang perempuan memulakan usaha untuk berkenalan. Orang lelaki akan sentiasa merasakan mereka yang memulakan perkenalan walaupun sebenarnya orang perempuan yang mulakan.

15. Berkomunikasi dengan mesra dan bersemangat menggunakan lidah, mata, hati dan bahasa badan. Elakkan bercakap sambil lewa atau kurang sopan terhadap bakal pasangan.

16. Berbual dengan pasangan mengenai apa yang dia suka. Beri tumpuan kepada minat dan perasaannya. Elakkan sibuk memberi tumpuan kepada diri sendiri.

17. Layan bakal pasangan dengan mesra seperti kawan lama walaupun baru berkenalan. Bentuk suasana keintiman dengan segera agar bakal pasangan rasa selesa.

18. Makin mudah kita menceritakan hal peribadi yang munasabah kepada bakal pasangan, semakin mudah dia menceritakan hal dirinya kepada kita.

19. Berdoa dan latih diri agar kita pandai mendampingi orang lain dan seronok untuk didampingi oleh orang lain. Buang perangai yang menyebabkan orang benci kepada kita.

20. Beri sayang untuk mendapat sayang. Orang yang masih ada perasaan benci terhadap sebarang orang boleh menyebabkan bakal pasangan benci atau tidak tertarik kepada kita. Justeru buang semua benci
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Mengelakkan Jadi Pelupa



Ini petua ulama untuk mengubati pelupa atau mengelakkan jadi pelupa:

1. Kismis hitam 21 biji setiap pagi. Kunyah sebutir-sebutir dan bukan sekali rap.

2. Madu sesudu dalam air panas segelas. Minum bila suam, setiap pagi.

3. Tidur awal bangun awal

4. Tidak bersetubuh melebihi 2 kali seminggu

5. Kurangkan makan dan kurangkan makan benda masam

6. Banyak makan ikan, sayur, tempeh, ubi, kekacang dan kurangkan makan daging

7. Tarik nafas dalam2 ikut hidung dan tahan 4 saat dan lepaskan perlahan-lahan ikut mulut. Buat 10 kali setiap pagi.

8. Buat stretching bila bangun dari tidur

9. Masa buang air besar, tutup kepala dan jangan buka mulut

10. Elakkan lihat kemaluan dan najis

11. Baca Qoran dan cuba menghafal setiap hari

12. Bakar kemenyan nasrani, wangian ros, sandal atau gaharu setiap minggu ( orang moden kata aromatherapy )

13. Pakai minyak wangi setiap hari bila keluar rumah ( wanita ketika dalam rumah).

14. Mandi pagi, petang dan selepas buang air besar

15. Belajar bersabar dengan bersolat atau berdoa bila ada masalah.

16. Sayang ahli keluarga, ibubapa dan kanak-kanak.

17. Tidak bercampur bukan muhrim kecuali bila ada keperluan


Selain dari kuat ingatan, badan menjadi sihat, akal tenang dan umurpun panjang.

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Lagu UMNO Baru

dapat video ni dari member2 group.... tima kasih ... cuba korang dengar liriknya




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Hati Lelaki - {Lelaki Ini (Anuar Zain)}



Saya sendiri sebagai lelaki rasa tercabar apabila isteri saya sering mewar-warkan kepada saya bahawa umur saya dah melewati 40 tahun. Life starts at 40. "Kalau u rasa u nak pasang lagi satu, i izinkan", kata isteriku.

Bila berangan tentang nak kahwin lain ni memanglah seronok. Tersengih- sengih aje lah aku at that time. Dunia ni dah terbalik gamaknya, kawan-kawan aku siap pegi Siam sana nak nikoh lagi satu, ni bini aku siap suruh pasang sorang lagi...?!' Tak tahulah kalau isteri i tu main reverse psikologi dengan i. Tapi lepas i berfikir panjang, rasa-rasanya tak naklah.

Sebab apa ?

Bila mengenangkan umur i yang dah 40+. Let's say kalau i kahwin dengan anak dara, katakan umur 22 tahun. Memanglah seronok beb.

Tentang makan minum, pakai i, kemas rumah dan kegemaran i, rasanya i tentu asyik teringatkan my first wife. Tak perlu nak ajar, i suka makan apa, camne cara nak masaknya, baju i kena gosok cam gini, kalau i bangun tidur i suka kalau my wife dah siapkan segala-galanya lah. Tak perlu i bagitau, dia dah tahu apa i suka. Cerita apa i suka kat TV, teh atau kopi manis macammana, hobi apa, sukan kegemaran .... semua dia dah tahu. Tak perlu start balik macam zaman umur 20-an dulu ... Rasa-rasa dapat ke isteri muda i suruh buat gitu, tentu dia banyak ragam. Ye lah dia muda, i kan dah tua. Mesti dia kata i ni mengada-ngada. Sure i yang kena manjakan dia lebih, sebab dia muda. Silap haribulan, takut lari lak, kan ... Isteri muda ni bukan macam yang dah bersama dgn kita sejak muda. Kalau kita rasa isteri tua banyak belanja, isteri yang muda PASTI LAGI TERUK.

Eh, budak 20-an zaman sekarang, dengan henbeg Gucci, dengan nak tudung kain Mawi dan henpon jenama Nokia N95, itu tak termasuk kereta, paling korok pun mesti nak Honda atau Toyota . Perempuan muda sekarang mana main naik Proton atau Perodua. Kalau i tak bagi barang-barang tu, dia tak nak bagi 'barang' dia lak malam-malam.



Sedangkan dengan isteri tua, awal-awal kahwin naik motorsikal cabuk pun sanggup, berpanas berhujan, dukung anak kita dicelah motor tu. Ahh ... terkenang juga zaman 'miskin' dulu tu. Rumah dengan bini tua dulu pun setakat apartment 3 bilik. Tidur atas tilam nipis, dapur pun kecik, perkakas pun tak banyak

Oh, untuk isteri muda, terpaksa aku buat OT untuk bayar rumah teres dua tingkat tu, nak bayar peti ais Samsung dan TV Sony Bravia 40-inci mu itu ... Dah umur 40-an ni, darah tinggi lak aku ni kena buat OT setiap hari... hari minggu pun kena cari duit ... nak tengok bola pun tak dapat ...

Lebih haru lagi, tentu anak-anak i akan memberontak sakan. Yelah sekarang ni kan banyak kes bapak kahwin lain anak-anak lebih tertekan. Ramai jadi liar, hisap dadah, jadi mat rempit dan bohsia. Sebab tension bapak kawin baru. Takut mereka menjauhkan diri dari i, malah akan membenci pula.

Masyarakat kita ni memandang serong pada keluarga yang bapak mereka kahwin lebih dari satu. Kalau i ada anak dengan isteri baru, tentu kecik sangat lagi di masa i dah tua dan memerlukan perhatian dari anak-anak.

Kat rumah isteri muda tengah hiruk pikuk dengan anak-anak kecil ( kan dah ada experience dengan isteri pertama -bagaimana kelam kabutnya dia menguruskan anak-anak), sedangkan di rumah isteri tua, anak-anak dah besar, boleh tolong mak dan sedang seronok bergurau senda bersama ibunya membincangkan topik-topik terkini dan juga kehidupan mereka. Duduk rumah bini muda, i yang tua-tua ni lak kena salin pampers dan bagi baby mandi. haha ... kalau tak buat, takut isteri muda merajuk pulak. Daah tak dapat...

Tak boleh jadik nih. Banyak benda yang kena repeat. Mula-mula kawin tentu seronok. Paling lama setahun-dua keseronokan tu. Bila dah ada anak, tanggungjawab baru bermula semula sebagaimana dengan isteri pertama dulu-dulu. Tapi masa ni kita dah tak larat nak basuh berak anak, nak pegi shopping beli baju anak anak, nak dukung anak-anak. Lecehlah nak kena teman isteri muda buat semua tu. Silap haribulan orang kata tengah pilih baju cucu. Eiiii tak sangguuup... Paling takut, orang ingat isteri muda tu anak i ...... lagi haru ....

Balik rumah mertua pula, teringatkan masa akad nikah dulu, beria ria kita nak kan anak dia, lepas tu kita kawin lagi satu. Tentu muka nih tak tau nak letak kat mana. Orang tua tak kan nak straight to the point. Tanya itu ini. Kalau dia nak bercakap tentang tu cukup dengan jelingan dan kerlingan mata, buat kita dah tak senang duduk.



Tak kan raya asyik balik umah mak mertua baru aje. Apatah lagi kalau i ni lak umur nak sama dengan mak-bapak mertua baru i tu .... Hisshh banyak lah lagi.

Bagi korang yang suka berbincang pasal benda yang indah indah kawin dua nih silakanlah. Tapi bagi i selagi hayat dikandung badan, selagi tu lah i tak nak tambah. Tak nak lah mendabik dada. Cakap besar.

Tapi sekadar menurutkan nafsu dan benda dalam seluar tu rasanya tak pernah kurang pun layanan isteri pertama terhadap i. Keluarga ni, kita bina keluarga bahagia yang di depan mata, bukannya yang di dalam kepala, bukannya di dalam 'seluar dalam' je.

Hadapi hari esok yang tentu dengan keluarga yang banyak mengharungi susah senang dari mula. Pengorbanan isteri (walaupun kadang kala dia pernah merungut, salah kita juga, cuai dan mengabaikannya) . Apapun semuanya bermula dengan kita. Insaflah.

Kalau nak ikut nabi, rasa-rasanya solat subuh pun kita terlepas kalau isteri tu tak kejutkan. Bukan nak kata solat Subuh, kekadang waktu lain pun terlambat atau terlepas. Baca Quran pun sekali-sekala, baca Yassin pun hanya bila ada orang meninggal. Ikut sunnah Nabi apa nama tu.

Tak payah lah yang lain2. Kang ada yang nangis bila disebutkan. Cukuplah. Sesungguhnya amat bertuahlah suami-suami yang mempunyai isteri yang menyuarakan pendapat di ruangan ni. Membuktikan mereka sayang, kasih dan cinta pada kalian. Apa sangatlah kita nih. Macam nabi konon. ye ke? Bab kawin aje nih cam nabi. Bab menegakkan benda dalam 'seluar dalam' je nak ikut sunnah. Cuba bab menegakkan agama Islam, masih lagi terkial2. Fikir2kanlah ya...

Wallahua'lam.

Sumber Dari : Sahabat Interaktif (SIM)gegirl


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Thursday, September 4, 2008

Award From FAra


Award From FAra

Thanx Fara For the Award.. Really Appreciate it
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Maya Karin's Wedding





Congrats to MAYA KARIN for her double celebration. First as the winner of the Best Actress award at the recent FFM 21 and her recent wedding to Muhammad Ali Abdullah, a teacher at Alice Smith International School. It was a nice wedding overlooking Lake Como in Bellagio Italy.



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List atau Senarai Harga Buffet Ramadan 2008 di Hotel Atau Restauran




Pada Sesiapa yg nak tau List HArga Utk Restauran dan hotel di musim ramadhan kali ni leh download di SINI




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Puasa yg berkesan utk kesihatan



Gejala-gejala yang berlaku semasa berpuasa:

Beberapa perkara akan berlaku disebabkan oleh pembuangan toksin dan bahan buangan ketika kita berpuasa seperti nafas berbau, peluh juga berbau,

kulit kering bersisik dan gatal, air kencing pekat dan berbau dan mungkin juga kerap kencing, buang air besar selepas beberapa hari berpuasa, sakit kepala, lenguh badan dan demam (kesan toksin keluar dari lemak ke darah, sebelum keluar dari badan), dan mungkin juga berlaku selsema dan kahak serta lendir dan keputihan.

Pesanan: Jika gejala ini tidak serius, jangan cuba ubatkan kerana ia akan berhenti dengan sendirinya.


Cara berbuka dan bersahur yang berkesan:


(i) Berbuka dengan buah dan air bertapis yang tidak dimasak (guna water-filter) .

(ii) Solat Maghrib terlebih dahulu bagi memberi peluang perut mencerna makanan

(iii) Makan makanan yang senang hadam dan kurangkan masakan berminyak, berempah dan pedas. Seelok-eloknya makan sayur, tahu dan kekacang.

(iv) Kurangkan kadar makanan dari biasa

(v) JANGAN minum air sambil makan. Insya-Allah jika makan secara perlahan-lahan, masalah tercekik tidak akan berlaku.

(vi) Minum air putih atau teh herba atau minuman yang mengandungi getah anggur, buah kembang semangkuk dan biji selasih sebanyak yang terminum. Waktu sahur elok makan buah dan susu atau sebarang makanan cecair.


Cara berpuasa yang tidak berkesan:


(i) Makan terlalu banyak (waktu sahur dan berbuka)

(ii) Makan makanan yang pedas dan berempah serta payah hadam

(iii) Makan terlalu banyak daging binatang terutama bagi pengidap batu karang, gout dan alahan.

(iv) Mengulangi makan sepanjang malam.

(v) Kurang minum air pada malam hari atau lebih minum air semasa makan

(vi) Tidur selepas kenyang makan


Makanan yang menjejaskan khasiat puasa kerana mengandungi bahan kimia:

(i) Kopi dan teh.

(ii) Air paip masak yang tidak ditapis.

(iii) Makanan yang ada bahan pengawet, pewarna, perasa tiruan seperti burger, sosej, mee segera, air tin & kotak, air squash, nugget dan seumpamanya.

(iv) Makanan masin perlu dielakkan semasa berpuasa kerana ia menyebabkan air bertakung dalam badan (water retention)

(v) Merokok


Fasa-fasa puasa yang berjaya:



Fasa pertama (2-3hari):

Perut akan terasa lapar, badan cepat letih, cepat marah kerana kadar glukosa dalam darah rendah



Fasa kedua (3-14 hari):

Kurang selera makan, senang gelap mata, nafas berbau, lidah menjadi putih atau berdaki manakala badan menjadi lesu.



Fasa ketiga(14-akhir puasa):

Lidah menjadi bersih, nafas hilang bau, selera makan baik, tenaga mula pulih dan kadar glukosa menjadi normal kembali. Di fasa ini juga mental, emosi dan badan semakin optimum dan diri menjadi orang baru. Keadaan puasa begini hanya dicapai oleh mereka yang benar-benar mengawal makan dan minum supaya proses asidosis dan ketosis di dalam badan berjalan lancar.



Amalan hari raya yang merosakkan manfaat puasa:

(i) Makan banyak (terutamanya daging, berempah, berlemak dan berminyak)

(ii) Makan kerap

(iii) Kuih-muih yang payah dihadam

(iv) Air yang mengandungi pewarna, perasa tiruan



Manfaat puasa yang berkekalan:

(i) Kurang makan kerana perut dah kecut

(ii) Kesihatan bertambah baik



Saya akhiri dengan sabda Rasulullah s. a. w. yang bermaksud:

" Ada banyak orang yang berpuasa tetapi ia tiada memperolehi dari puasanya itu, selain dari lapar dan dahaga (yakni tiada mendapat pahala)."



'Selamat Berpuasa & Selamat Berjuang'


"The Beauty of Life does not depend on how happy you are. But how happy others can be. Because of You!!!.."

"If you want to succeed, you should strike out on new paths, rather than travel the worn paths of accepted success"

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Wednesday, September 3, 2008

SENARAI IKAN YG TIDAK "GATAL" UTK DI MAKAN


1. IKAN TENGGIRI
2. IKAN TALANG KERING
3. IKAN BILIS
4. AYAM DIBUANG KULIT
5. IKAN GELAMA
6. IKAN SELAR

KESEMUA JENIS2 IKAN INI BOLEH DIBUAT SUP DAN DIGORENG BERSAMA BAWANG...


HALIA MUDA DIPOTONG NIPIS BUAT ULAM MAKAN DGN NASI PANAS2...BUANG ANGIN DAN MENAMBAH SELERA...YG TAK DAPAT MAKAN SEPERTI BIASA.

ELAKKAN MAKAN BENDA2 SEJUK...

SEELOKNYA MASAK LAH SENDIRI , KERANA KALU BELI DI PASAR.. MUNGKIN BAHAN2 DICAMPUR DLM MASAKAN TIDAK SESUAI DIMAKAN DLM PANTANG SEPERTI TIMUN, TERUNG PETOLA YG DICAMPUR DLM IKAN .......DLL.

Semoga Informasi Ini Dapat membantu Terutama Orang Yg Dalam Pantang... Ngeh Ngeh Ngeh

P/s : Boleh Refer Kat Mak Mertua Kalau Nak Confirm kan... Sekurang2nya dapat mengeratkan hubungan menantu dan mertua (modaltuk becerita... hahaha) tul tak?

*Diucapkan terima kasih pada Jalilah JY dari Respek Group utk menu ni...


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Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Emporio Armani's New Man



Giorgio Armani has just announced that leading Asian actor Takeshi Kaneshiro will be the first Asian male face to appear in an advertising campaign for Emporio Armani in the Fall 2008 men’s collection. A well recognised face throughout Asia, Takeshi’s signing as the new testimonial for Emporio Armani corresponds with the brand’s growing development in the China market, which will celebrate the opening of 13 new Emporio Armani stores around the country within 2008.


Takeshi joins David Beckham who is the official testimonial for Emporio Armani Underwear and KaKa, the testimonial for Emporio Armani Menswear in Europe and the Americas. Takeshi will appear in a special advertising campaign for the Emporio Armani Fall 2008, which will be rolled out in Hongkong, China and Taiwan in leading fashion and lifestyle magazines and on signature billboards.

The union between Giorgio Armani and the film industry is well documented. It all started with the wardrobe he created for Richard Gere in American Gigolo in 1980. Over the years Giorgio Armani has continued to show his passion for motion picture. Giorgio Armani began his support of Asian cinema in 2006 with the costume design for a Chinese language motion picture Confession of Pain, starring Takeshi.

Takeshi has appeared in over 30 films including many landmarks of Asian cinema, among them Wong Kar-Wai’s Chungking Express in 1994. Of Chinese and Japanese descent, Takeshi’s filmography is not limited to Chinese language productions including House of Flying Daggers, Perhaps Love in 2006, The Warlords in 2007 and this year’s Red Cliff but also Japanese films including Returner in 2002.

Giorgio Armani said, "I am excited to collaborate with Takeshi on this new advertising campaign. He is a film and style icon in Asia where his fame transcends cultures both East and West. His sense of effortless style is very contemporary and sophisticated and together with his good look makes him the ideal testimonial for Emporio Armani."

Takeshi expressed his own excitement about the appointment saying, "I have always been a great admirer of Giorgio Armani, not only for his remarkable accomplishment as a master of style but I very much respect his enduring support of the film industry. As an actor myself, I am really delighted to be working with him and very honoured to be the testimonial for Emporio Armani."

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Silky for Who?




Asmawi Ani, or more fondly known as Mawi, the winner of Astro's Akademi Fantasia 3, has joined the Silky family as the new spokesman for Silky for Men.

He will be working hand-in-hand with talented young actress Sharifah Amani who takes the helm as ambassadress of the Silkygirl fragrance collection.

This congenial 24-year-old lad, who hails from Johor, grew up in the humble environment of Felda Taib Andak, Kulai. He shot to instant fame during the three-month stint at the Astro's talent-search programme.

His experience as a religious teacher and his honest-to-goodness nature appeal to audiences and Malay folk of all ages who are drawn to him.

Within two days of the release of his debut album, Mawi ... Yang Tercinta, more than 85,000 copies were snapped up.

To date, he has at least five awards to his name. At the Anugerah Bintang Popular 2005, Mawi bagged three awards: most popular celebrity, most popular breakthrough, and most popular male singer. He won the best performance award at the Anugerah Juara Lagu 2005 and most popular Malaysian artiste at the MTV Asia Music Awards 2006.

Mawi's vocal talent and charismatic presence make him the perfect fit for Silky for Men fragrances, which comprises two variants - Fantasia and Inspiration.

Fantasia, the star fragrance of Silky for Men, is inspired by Mawi. Fantasia exudes the characteristics of the man who enjoys freedom, is comfortable with himself and at ease with his world.

This refreshing scent opens with a fresh burst of basil, lavender and bergamot, intensified with clary sage and juniperberries, resting on a base of sweet musky, woody and ambery undertone.

Inspiration epitomises the mysteriously classic, masculine man.

This classic fougere fragrance unfolds with a blend of bergamot, galbanum, ozonic and lavendin, enriched with a touch of muguet, geranium and jasmine.

Inspiration soothes out on a musky, ambery and vanillic sandalwood base.




Scents of Amani

On the feminine side, we have Sharifah Amani. Understanding that most of her female supporters look to her as a role model, Amani brings herself closer to them by sharing her 'confidence booster' - Silkygirl fragrances.

SweetHeart, Amani's preferred fragrance, is a sparkling floral blend that addresses the young, confident and independent women of today.

It is a mosaic of citrus freshness inlayed with oriental floral bouquet, followed by highlights of sweet woody and musky notes.

Loving You is dedicated to the young and spirited. This exhilaratingly fresh scent sparkles with a feast of floral fruity apple at the top.

A sophisticated blend of exotic flowers sizzles through the middle, warmed by a musky woody and ambery undertone.

The range of Silky for Men fragrances retails at RM19.90 for 100ml while the range of Silkygirl fragrances retails at RM18.90 for 50ml.

The fragrances are available at major pharmacies, personal care stores and departmental stores nationwide.


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